Sunday, April 29, 2012

A LANGUAGE IS LANDSCAPE: PART 2. BUILDING A COMMUNITY WORTH KEEPING


I am reimagining my concept of “sustainability” as something that is continuously self-reflective… As something that is simultaneously learning, changing, and growing.

“Growth” in relation to “sustainable” need not always be defined as forward or upward movement because the making of mistakes as well as the time and space to learn from those mistakes are essential to the development of both personal and systemic integrity. True sustainability in community necessarily involves relationships and as such, that community must expect these same standards of non-judgmental self-reflection from its members and in its mandates.

Public education in much of the western world continues to teach language in a way that positions letters, words and phrases alongside the assumption that collective understanding is not only a possibility but a given. I believe that most teachers who continue to support this system do so with the good and honest intention of making safe spaces for all children to learn and thrive. This is an act faith and, although many things about the having-of-faith are beautiful, the repercussions of a faith that does not also embrace humility are not predictable and rarely end well or with much original good-ness intact.

It seems to me then, that a sustainable model of education is one that can also trust itself and all of its members to mess up. It is secure in and because of the knowledge that mistakes are a normal and healthy occurrence when true dynamic inquiry is being pursued.  The trust factor must also then extend to the understanding that individuals in that relationship will both, a) take personal responsibility for any hurt that has occurred as a result of those errors (regardless of intent and particularly if there is a power differential) and, b) celebrate and honour the learning that comes of that process.

How can we expect our kids to challenge themselves to the point that they can make mistakes which catalyze personal growth and maturation if we ourselves are acting in a manner that condemns the sometimes-messy nature of PROCESS?... If our actions as adults are driven by our own insecurities and therefore cannot tolerate the slow construction of a solid base for growth?...
If we cannot personally stand to take the risks that allow for inner-knowing of what radical change looks, sounds and feels like over the long term

Sustainable faith in the possibility of community – meaning, one in which a base-line of equity challenges all forms of institutionalized oppression in “walk” as well as talk – must actually be fueled by love as opposed to any intensely individual motive for overhauling a system that does not work.

This is the kind of love that knows you can’t really love any other thing or person very deeply unless you really and truly practice loving yourself.

This is the love that makes kindness and compassion a non-negotiable aspect of every relationship; both interpersonal and systemic.

It may seem remarkably simplistic, but I for one would prefer to spend the next 30 years of my professional energies working with a love-fueled, in-motion,
potentially messy model of change,
as opposed to one that is carefully bound to a static concept or intent.

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